This is something that our popular neoliberal , consumerist culture fails to communicate that marriage and love, is not about a rock from tiffany or a honeymoon in the Maldives but its about companionship and sacrifice. A model from GQ only looks good on a magazine cover. In the end it is trust and the ability to reach an extra mile that matters. Do not commoditise love.
Human Values are universal. A Mother cares its child, a couple cares about each other. Globalised Cosmopolitanism have set expectation settings too far. The sociological imagery of a grand wedding and a life beyond means earned makes things rather unworkable.
Let us all be reasonable and try to understand a shade more. A relationship is not a product. It has a soul. Feel it.